10 Things Never to Say to a Working Mom

I've shared my struggles about being a working Mom.
I thought this article was interesting, especially considering where I'm from.
Sometimes I feel like I'm being chastised for not being a homemaker.

10 Things Never to Say to a Working Mom

1. It must be hard missing all those special moments every day.

2. I suppose it's smart that you're working. You know, in case your husband leaves you some day.

3. I'm surprised you went back to work. Your husband seems so successful.

4. It's cute when they call your nanny "Mama."

5. I just love my kids too much to leave them during the day.

6. Did you see Dateline? The one with the hidden camera in the day care?

7. I could never let someone else raise my children. But that's just me!

8. I hated my mom because she was never home after school like everyone else's mom.

9. You must feel so guilty.

10. I wish I were as laid-back as you and could just let the housework go.


Yes, there are times when nothing sounds better than staying home with my baby girl.  Lots of times.  But I've come to terms with the lifestyle I am living, because it is what is best for my family.  I love my job.  I will always work.  I am proud of who I am professionally and am working on expounding that.  I am also quite impressed with myself for how I've been able to keep up at home at the same time.

Unfortunately I can't live in both worlds, but I wish I could receive a little more respect for the lifestyle I've chosen.